When one moves ahead setting some goals, he starts the journey all alone, suddenly some one calls and say 'can i accompany you' but the line is not over here itself. one says 'can i accompany you until our paths don't divert and seperate us', desolate, with a feeling to move ahead one moves, ignoring the fact that there are just few steps with one who want us or whom we want to be with us.while two are on there way they are happy and they felt they could be more so they called up more people to join them.

Is every journey destined to visit a crossroad ?????? where one takes there own seperate path.............

But wait... Is it so bad that people leave, Is it so bad that we get attached to people that will not be with us always, always here just means till we are alive. Is it so bad to love someone who is going to leave you.........


Here always mean till we live, Are we sure that our parents, our friends , lovers will not die before us , and if they die wont they leave us..... Even if every journey is going to a cross road, is nt this great that atleast you shared sometime with someone,

I know It hurts when someone you love leaves you, and it should, but does that mean that we should stop loving because one will leave me, does that mean we should not love anything in life, anyone in life... Love never comes with a life time warranty, because if it would have there would have been no fear of loosing it, and without that fear you would have not loved anyone so much.

One thing i dont think i will ever understand.....is love a compromise and if it is it should not be beautiful, is it that it gives you peace and lets u feel secure....

Nah love makes you more vulnerable, someone takes control of you , you are no more the decision maker, when will you be happy, when will you cry , whom will u meet, and whom would you talk to you can decide, it take your freedom of choice.....

But its not your choice, you never choose to fall in love, is int very illogical and sense less, doesnt this blog sound as if Love is the worst thing to be in, i dont know,

But its like alcohal , once you are in it it tastes good, when u try to leave it kills you , you become dependent it becomes part of your life, its leaves u intoxicated, you are no more real you , you are being possessed.... But still you love that...

and because you cant live without that you marry someone...

But hey why, may be women marry for security in life ( atleast majority in india) who wants to bother about social security in india you are married you are the responsibility of your husband....Then why do men marry , May be because of the same reason for which they drink...
may be to make sure that they have someone waiting in there bed daily... may be they also want some sort of freedom from making food from themself.....or may be because they dont have an option.. May be because our society makes them do this.... or may be our society makes both men and women marry each other.....


But doesnt all this make you feel i am against marriage or may be i dont know what is love .. or commitment.. many people say me this... I dont know..may be i have never been in love or may be i have had my share of it... i dont know... May be when friendship starts hurting you its love, or may be when u get overly possessive about someone that is love..But I dont understand why is security so important for love.. why the thought that someone will never leave you so important for love to blossom... Many of the good relationships I had in life were never forever... this may mean i dont know how to manage relationships...or may be this also means i dont like compromises in relations...

But something in me still believe in love,, It still believe that there is no more bigger happiness that seeing someone you love happy, smiling, laughing eating food, getting childish.. Being in love makes you feel good and afraid at same time... It may be the best feeling that a human can ever feel in life....But its just a feeling an emotion...